The Devil Inside

While travelling one morning, happens to see a man falling from his cycle, the reaction, felt bad for him. While few go and give him a helping hand, a kid seeing him falling starts laughing. What an oxymoron, same action draws a different reaction. A child whose heart is so pure, laughs at this. What is this, a devil inside?

Battle between good and bad or say good and devil has continued since ages. A kid, whose mind is a clean slate can laugh on someone's pain only when the devil is uncontrolled. Gives a sense as if demon the basic nature of a person. Devilish is the first feeling often comes to the mind. A kid is so pure that expresses, and he grows up tuning the mind and filter the feelings. The reactions no longer remain unbridled but are trained ones

In essence, the good and devil co-exist, it be heart or a society. The importance of good is because there exist something bad. Relevance of fair complexioned skin is because there is one with dark skin. Positive is so 'coz there is a negative. Sum up all and its a zero sum game. Little pondering shows these to be extreme words and in reality don't exist other than semantics. A good man is good as long as some better man is not identified. A lady is beautiful until some prettier one comes in picture. Nothing actually is perfect or eternal. Its just a matter of relativity, importance is only till the options are not sighted

How dull the life would have been if the feeling of being wicked never existed. The naughty kids breaking windows, eve teasing, giving excuses for the sins, flirting, adultery, stealing, frauds are all a relative forms of devil and just vary in the impact. A devil less world would have turned into a land of saints and could have even hurdled the growth of population

What differentiates a human from other human, or a civilization from a civilization is ability to decipher things or balance the feelings or say devils. Actions and reactions of grown ups based on sheer desires without foreseeing the consequences could be disastrous for oneself or others

The emotions by nature are so 'coz dont carry any logic but the actions are in the hands of an individual. A controlled devil is dangerous as it refuses to be suppressed. Need is to make devil a good friend. Know the devil, understand him and channelise him. Its exisitence makes ground for the good to prolifer. A little devil adds charms to life, makes it enjoyable

Next time when embrace the goodness, give a peck on cheek of the devil inside. The life just gets spiced up!!!!

Monday Blues

The beautiful musical guitar sound echoes in the room, but today it appears too noisy. Hands move on and suffocate the apparent screeching alarm. Finally after an hour long struggle between the desire and running time, I get up to move on. Its bad, very bad Monday morning after a kool two days weekend

With the jaws open to grab a deep breath, I yawn endlessly in the office chair. Opened excel file just shows the busy status though the eyes see nothing. End up struggling, I take the newspaper and start reading. Oh still eyes going shut and the phone ring awakes me to add to the woes, the review meeting with director gets preponed

Given the sense of urgency, I splashed water on the face and get ready to give a charged up image. In the active environment meeting proceeds with participation from me and everybody. I thought, I was active until I am asked an opinion. Alas! I had ushered in sleepy state with open eyes. Two hour long meeting finally gets over with no apparent embarrassments

The sumptuous lunch starts putting further pressure on struggling eye lashes. The day appears like never ending soap opera of star plus channel, and every passing minute looks like ages. Finally I decide to go home early instead of sitting unproductive. The clock ticks four in the evening. Still making the plans to catch a beautful nap after reaching home, bosses summon some critical information. Somehow, corporates are bitten by a culture of asking deliverables in the late evening and all is supposed to be provided yesterday. Sleeps gets buried, mind goes hyper and fingers move actively on key board

Its 8 in the evening, I am still working with no one around. The ordeal of being sleepy does not exist anymore. By the time, I get into my cozy bed, clock already shows midnight. Mind is tired, eyes are open, the elusive sleep takes time to grab me. As the moment comes at a slow pace, falling appears fun, material world carrying no meanings, I fall in dreams. Hours fly away like minutes, the night seems too short in the sedative arms of goddess of sleep

Life is full of Campa Cola

Life is full of campa cola, ad campaign launched more than 2 decades ago by a cola company to market its beverage

One day my colleague uttered this word in a non-chalant outburst on some offical matter, " Life is full of campa cola". How true the statement that life is full of campa cola, the fun is as long as the fizz is in the bottle. Open the bottle it just goes off. Ever thought the fun of life, the craze is lasting until its explored

When a group of entreprenurs start a company, it starts with so much passion, plans are laid down and full hog efforts are made that goes beyond time check. Every small success is celebrated, every action is appraised. Soon the company grows and then gets stagnated and here we start claiming elephants cant dance

Similar things is witnessed when a couple nurture a relationship, at inception they start wooing each other in every possible best maner, curiosity is high to know each other and are too conscious of every move. As the relationship progresses, the enthusiasm starts falling apart and life becomes a routine function as no further dreams are seen together

This is the importance of fizz in every walk of life, activity or relation. The fizz has to be maintained to keep the things going. It be a long term goal, a vision, a company formation or a relationship, it has to be reinvented & a trigger is needed to give further spikes. Managers have to give new dimensions to their work, couples need to see new dreams and individuals need to sharpen the edges

The taste of campa cola is only in that small bottle. Life is also made up of mutilple bottles and every bottle carries its fizz. Once the fizz is over, the value of bottle is last and we pick up the next one and life goes on. We need to find fizz i.e. reasons to smile. The growth and happiness lies in how fast we cherish the fizz and move to the next ones

Enjoy the moments & the life before it fizzles away... Life is full of campa cola, comes with expiry date and little fizz

Dreams & You

"Dreams are not what we see when sleep, but dreams are things that never let us sleep"

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In the name of the best within you, do not sacrifice this world to those who are its worst. In the name of the values that keep you alive, do not let your vision of man be distorted by the ugly, the cowardly, the mindless in those who have never achieved his title. Do not lose your knowledge that man’s proper estate is an upright posture, an intransigent mind and a step that travels unlimited roads.

Don't Let your fire go out,
Spark by irreplaceable spark,
in the hapless swamps of the approximate,
the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all.

Don't let the hero in your soul perish,
in lonely frustration for the life you deserved,
but have never been able to reach

Check your road and nature of your battle

The world you deserved can be won,

It exists,

Its real,

Its possible,

Its YOURS.......

- Ayan Rand

Man a happier soul

Ever thought why men are happier than females.

Root of happiness lies in simplicity and not complications. Consistency is the key with this animal, no erratic mood swings, retains the family name. Has a mind that is used to think and doesnt bother heart for it. Loves to forgive and ignores the pitfalls, hates postmortems. Avoids loads of history in relations and is receptive

He finsihes phone call in few minutes and also gets ready in 10 minutes. Doesnt need to bath twice a day or even bath everyday. Doesnt wash face every 30 min and even gets bored with his own face in mirror

Packs a small bag for a week's vacation. One pair of jeans can last for long time. Single pair of shoes is enough for whole year and can repeat shirts every week. Doesnt keep a track of what his friends wore on previous party. Friendship survives the errors or ommisions for not wishing on birthdays. Takes just required time & lesser money to finish monthly shopping. Can manage with teeth without searching nail cutters

Single cupboard is enough to keep all clothes & stuffs and does not hoard packing covers of stuffs purchased. Accepts criticism about himself, family and listens patiently to his partner. Doesnt carry work home and lives in present. Doesnt need to meet friends everyday and flexible with schedules

Eyes do not chase the last glimpse of pals bidding bye. Doesnt cry or think but speaks what runs thru mind. Doesn't have to be pregnant and assertive that sex is healthy fun. Chocolate or icecream is just another sweet stuff. Needs only appropriate time to pronounce words like cute or sweet

Make no mistakes, man is just an animal behaving this way. Over all its too boring the life until he finds gal who loves doing just opposite

Man is like a battery.... needs charging. Females are those batteries, to be happy we got to live with them... its okie if batteries have positive side also :)

Life at Sea

Its morning standing facing the sea. So lound in a silent environs. Waves come and recede and the newer ones keep coming. Every wave shows a sharp move and then signs of exhaustion in trailing ones and the water returns without reaching the feet. Look little farther, the new one is forming and running towards you and actually goes past making even the knees wet. Goes back again in a shell , dies but always back with vigour as the new waves keep forming

Venture deeper, the parallel is easily drawn between the vagaries of wave movement and a human nature. The mind functions in same fashion with the mood swings. Every fresh thing pulls an upbeat wave, mind turns hyperactive and then reaches exhaustion. Soon the wave dies and mind moves in a shell. Life moves on and new waves keep forming keeping it chequered with ups and down

The vagaries go with every man, woman, a kid or any oldy but the personalities are formed based on the manner we approach the waves. The key lies in elongating the upward waves and slowing down the downward ones. A visionary would keep looking for the newer epicenters of waves leading to greener pastures while enjoying the upbeat ride of the exisitng ones

Happy are they who accept the cycle, go up with the trend and not shy of falling with a will to come back with fresh move. Life is like a sea with commotion on the surface and tranquility in depth. Peace comes from wave handling. So next time when the life is dull, look for the traling fresh wave pushing you reach the shores.. its always there near or little farther